topic of the missing Seattle man suddenly re-appears

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

and the thread is closed within minutes, of course.

Wife of SeaTac man missing for months files for divorce
http://www.etsy.com/forums_thread.php?thread_id=5669807

13 comments

Anonymous said...

Some people don't want to know facts because the facts point to their own gullibility.

"Some states require certain allegations to be present to qualify for an uncontested divorce."

Washington is not one of those states, but let's pretend for a moment that they do require such allegations to be present. This leaves you with one of two situations. Either she is lying now about "a history of acts of domestic violence" or she was lying by omission by pretending that everything was hunk dory when she and her friends were seeking charitable donations in the forums and elsewhere after he disappeared.

It's a sad situation all the way around.

June 17, 2008 at 7:00:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

i agree that it should be dicussed elsewhere
-TMI on the Etsy peeps-
and there are a few small children left behind. tacky discussion topic
-but- its amazing how quickly this is cut short while the mccain thread was allowed to linger until? some magic boundary crossed?

June 17, 2008 at 7:16:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

The admins were in full support of the donation threads. maybe they're embarrassed?

June 17, 2008 at 7:53:00 PM EDT
Closed Threads said...

esme darling - I was wondering about that too (the amount of time before it closed).

There are plenty of others that should have been closed long before they were yet this one was pounced on almost immediately.

June 17, 2008 at 7:54:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

its an unfortunate situation all around with the missing father. they've got to be embarrased. i'm embarrased and never participated in any of it

why close that other thread? if the "n" word was found objectionable the "g" word was equally so so it should have been closed asap.

June 17, 2008 at 8:07:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

huh? back up here...why is everyone embarrassed? any other links to for the whole story behind this one?

June 17, 2008 at 8:49:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

Do you think it is odd that she refers to herself as a single parent after her husband has been missing for only four months? I don't think I would give up on mine that soon even if he were an abusive bastard. Unless I had actual knowledge of his demise, I'd be waiting for him to come home so I could beat the crap out of him for leaving.

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June 17, 2008 at 11:40:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

I was glad you posted this thread. Since this entire thing occurred on Etsy I have been trying to follow the story. On some sleuth type sites the allegations of secret life (and a nekkid pic of Nicolas) are shocking. Crazy spin to the original tale. Still a terrible situation all the way around.

June 18, 2008 at 5:52:00 AM EDT
RecoveryBabe said...

WTF? This shit is crazy...

I like how when this was all going down it was ok to post about donations and so forth. Now apparently we're not allowed to beg for money, thanks for ruining it for all of us.... geez

June 18, 2008 at 9:49:00 AM EDT
Anonymous said...

Rob White's reason for closing the Christine and Nicholas Francisco THREAD 8 (a more recent CT entry) was...

"This intensely personal matter has had its time on the Etsy Forums; let's let it rest."

Which I think means it was okay to get intensely personal when people were listing and paying fees and Etsy was benefitting from the charitable contributions but now that it looks like some good people were taken advantage of, let's pretend it never happened.

June 18, 2008 at 2:26:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

I know a girl who used to date him. She didn't know he had a wife and kids until she stumbled on some evidence.

She's been cooperating with the police. I guess he's had a string of girlfriends all along.

June 18, 2008 at 7:49:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

Boyfriends too, apparently.

June 18, 2008 at 8:12:00 PM EDT
Anonymous said...

When I saw the million threads pop up on Etsy I just shock my head in disbelief of how gullible people can be.

it was getting sickening.

NOW we find out he's cheated on her the whole marriage, the marriage wasn't perfect like she painted and he most likely left her for one of his sex buddies.

She knew what as up a week into it but she kept on opening her hands like a beggar. I hear she racked in over 20 thousand from all of the massive donations...where's that money now?


Yeah, let's pray so more.

How about praying to get the thousands that she falsely took, back?

June 18, 2008 at 11:52:00 PM EDT